Ordinary People, Exceptional Movie
A Mother/Son Disconnect - Pic courtesy of Paramount
by blogSpotter
Before I embark on my movie review, I ‘d like to touch on a couple of things...
The blog lives -- Much as the Mayans miscalculated when the world would end, I miscalculated when this blog would end. I still have some poorly expressed ideas to get out there. Clumsily, herkily and jerkily -- I will share my point of view. For a while longer anyway... you lucky few readers. :-)
Sandy Hook and the NRA -- It looks like the National Rifle Association wants to turn every public school into a preadolescent version of Dodge City. The idea that every school house should be turned into a military encampment is frighteningly stupid. Enough already -- let’s restrict the sale of assault weapons and be done with it.
Chromebook -- This blog is being typed on a beautiful silver-green Acer Chromebook. In my previous blog entry, I errored on the price. It’s only $199. An iPod Touch costs more than that; accessories for the Surface tablet cost more than that. My Chromebook has the light, sleek feel of a Macbook Air only at ⅕ of the price. It boots in 14 seconds. The Hexxeh USB drive that I used for my Chromium trial was not an officially supported distribution -- thus its problems with Adobe Flash. This beauty runs everything fine and receives regular updates. There are of course, limitations. You can’t install “normal” software with drivers -- no Quicken or iTunes. But, I’m willing to explore options for something so light, beautiful and fast.
AND NOW THE CINEMA...
I took a walk down memory lane yesterday and watched 1980’s Ordinary People, directed by Robert Redford. The movie stars Donald Sutherland and Mary Tyler Moore as Calvin and Beth Jarrett; they play an affluent couple grappling with the boating death of their older teenage son. The younger son, Conrad is played perfectly by Timothy Hutton; Judd Hirsch plays a psychiatrist who guides Conrad and Calvin through the Hellish grief and confusing, sometimes destructive thoughts that accompany such a tragic event.
The stand-out performance is Mary Tyler Moore, who superficially seems like the perfect Highland Park wife. But her glib elegance and beauty conceal a vindictive ice queen who hasn’t come to her own terms -- that of losing a favored son and feeling a secret resentment toward the already guilt-ridden surviving son. She comes across as a surface-level person who is mostly concerned about “how things look” and not ever “how things are”. Such a cognitive disparity creates a giant fissure in a family that needs to move toward forgiveness and not frigid divisiveness.
The performances are superb in this milestone movie. Ordinary People was ahead of its time by about 10 years -- it dealt intelligently and sensitively with topics of recovery and personal discovery. It has aged extremely well in 32 years -- the music and styles evoke affluence and traditional comfort in an upscale area. If not for a few scenes with cars you might think it was made in the 1990’s or 2000’s. I found the movie on iTunes, for $2.99 -- a bargain for a truly thought-provoking excursion. We live in a self-help society -- Ordinary People sheds some light on why we need so much help.
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Labels: Cinema, Retrospective